I have no idea why suddenly today i was called to view my blog and write something in it.. It has been ages I haven't write anything in here..=) Actually I just feel like feeling less...How's that???rasa seperti tidak berperasaan...huhuu...Hurmm....sounds like i'm having a burden...yeaahh...might be...
Well....back to the topic, "keegoaan vs kelembutan".... Pernah x terjumpa or kenal someone yg sgt ego perangainya and x pernah rasa diri dia salah? Or maybe u yourself are acting that way? As far as i am concerned,sometimes we need to have that kind of character..i mean ego..but "sometimes",not all the times.. I used to be that kind of person ages ago.. Ye..sangat ego and x pernah nk mengalah..Suddenly one day,there was a guy told me,"Nurul Adillah,ego awak mengalahkan ego lelaki saya". But saya still degil and always think that I'm the one who is always right.. Mum said,maybe coz i'm the eldest..and i always want the whole world listen to my words..
But that was ages ago not now anymore..Time changes me a lot..I realise I got nothing by behaving that way..I'm just hurting others.. I'm happy to be a new Adillah..I'm happy my ego was gone with the wind...(^_^) I try to tolerate with people around me..
Oh ya! I got a story to be shared...
Ada sorg guru dari Jepun and he told his students, "Mengalah itu ibarat pohon willow..Have u ever heard of this tree's name? I don't..=) tp,pokok ni adalah pohon yang tegak dan kuat. Dan sambung guru tu lagi, "dan tidak melawan adalah ibarat pohon oak". Pohon oak adalah pohon yang keras dan kukuh. Did u get any message from this?? As far as i'm concerned, even kita mengalah pn,that doesn't mean kita kalah and kita lemah..and bila kita tidak melawan,that doesn't mean kita takut..=) Dan sedar atau tidak sedar,keegoan selalu kalah dengan kelembutan..=)
So,in a nut shell, x perlu la nak show off diri kita hebat dengan menunjukkan keegoaan kita coz that will make others annoy us.. =) and keegoan seorang wanita adalah kelembutannya kerana lembutnya wanita bukanlah perhiasan..Andai kelembutan ini dicabar oleh keegoan seorang lelaki,u'd better watch out or u'll be sacked!
Well....back to the topic, "keegoaan vs kelembutan".... Pernah x terjumpa or kenal someone yg sgt ego perangainya and x pernah rasa diri dia salah? Or maybe u yourself are acting that way? As far as i am concerned,sometimes we need to have that kind of character..i mean ego..but "sometimes",not all the times.. I used to be that kind of person ages ago.. Ye..sangat ego and x pernah nk mengalah..Suddenly one day,there was a guy told me,"Nurul Adillah,ego awak mengalahkan ego lelaki saya". But saya still degil and always think that I'm the one who is always right.. Mum said,maybe coz i'm the eldest..and i always want the whole world listen to my words..
But that was ages ago not now anymore..Time changes me a lot..I realise I got nothing by behaving that way..I'm just hurting others.. I'm happy to be a new Adillah..I'm happy my ego was gone with the wind...(^_^) I try to tolerate with people around me..
Oh ya! I got a story to be shared...
Ada sorg guru dari Jepun and he told his students, "Mengalah itu ibarat pohon willow..Have u ever heard of this tree's name? I don't..=) tp,pokok ni adalah pohon yang tegak dan kuat. Dan sambung guru tu lagi, "dan tidak melawan adalah ibarat pohon oak". Pohon oak adalah pohon yang keras dan kukuh. Did u get any message from this?? As far as i'm concerned, even kita mengalah pn,that doesn't mean kita kalah and kita lemah..and bila kita tidak melawan,that doesn't mean kita takut..=) Dan sedar atau tidak sedar,keegoan selalu kalah dengan kelembutan..=)
So,in a nut shell, x perlu la nak show off diri kita hebat dengan menunjukkan keegoaan kita coz that will make others annoy us.. =) and keegoan seorang wanita adalah kelembutannya kerana lembutnya wanita bukanlah perhiasan..Andai kelembutan ini dicabar oleh keegoan seorang lelaki,u'd better watch out or u'll be sacked!
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